The Nigerian Actor/Model and TV personalty writes an exciting piece on Nigerians and how they see marriage. He talks about the pressure of marriage and how times have changed and hoe Nigerians have refused to change with the trend.He writes:
Why you never marry na?
hmmmmm how old is she? why isn't she married?
This one he is still single, maybe he traded his marriage with wealth via juju
They say she was very promiscous in her younger day o!and see her she is married!!
Where is my own LORRRRRD!!!!WHY ME??!!
Abeg!
WAKE UP NIGERIANS!
My word!
I think Nigerians are the hardest to convince that times have changed
Which is why we are finding it difficult to develop as a country. #FACT!
The amount of importance and relevance attached to marriage in this side of the world is the main reason for DEPRESSION,FAILURE,UNFULFILLED LIVES, PRETENSE AND UNREPORTED SUICIDE! And am not talking about the single folks here.
Don't get my wrong am not anti marriage! Am Very Pro Marriage- for the right reasons!
I'ts Crazy Shocking and alarming that people still succumb to pressure and just marry the next person the date!
Woow!
In my own opinion its better to die single than to marry and get stocked with the wrong person! cos that it's self is early death.
First of all parents needs to chill!
You have lived your lives ,produced and raised good children.... if you did a good job at it , you should trust your trust your kids enough to make adult decisions at the right time! Stop the pressure!! some of you have forced your kids into abusive relationships just so you can save a face and brag ahh all my children are married oooo! so continue bragging when you have to go and fetch their bodies from the hospital or even worse a mortuary!! Yep it'a been happening in this country.Husbands beating their wives to death..... wives stabbing or shooting their husbands.
Thank God for the kind of parents and family i have o!
Then society need to shut the hell up!
MY YOUR OWN DAWN BUSINESS AND FOCUS ON YOUR OWN LIVES!
The truth is...... people who are happily married and busy raising a family have absolutely no time to bother about who is married and staying married.
Most embarrassingly married person getting involved in gossips about singles.
Kai!!! signs of failing/unhappy marriage include serious level of Aproko! Hahaha.
On a more serious note my opinion is this,expecting everyone to get and stay married is like expecting everyone to rich and famous!I WONT HAPPEN! the earlier we accept the better for us!
Most people do not listen to their spirits or seek God deeply they just fling-ed themselves into just so they can be MARRIED.
Times have changed!
People are not staying married!Men are getting more and more irresponsible, women are getting more successful and intolerant of men;s childish behaviors and oh they are also bold enough to explore extra marital affairs now.
It's crazy how me. a bachelor, would go out to a club and at 2/am am tired and want to go home and the married dudes are saying .....where u dey go Na???? party never finish!!
*straight face*
REALLY!!!! Who is cuddling your wife at this ungodly hour? why is she sleeping alone for alone for goodness sake!
Even worse when a married person says.... Uti introduce me to one small fine girl Na,i de de lonely sometimes
Oh Wow!1
Very Irresponsible but HEAVY STATEMENT.
Married and Lonely?? HMMMMMMMM!
Let's not for that thanks to the social media some equally lonely and bored wives are snagging young fit men daily.!!!! I mean the rate is alarming! in some marriages the husbands are constantly cheating as well as the wives??!
So wait! why marry?!!!! WHY?
And trust religious fanatic to say God said a man should leave house and find a wife.etc...etc
Really? DID GOD say a MUST Marry?!
Is there a commandment that says THALL SHALT MARRY!
Yes Jesus said if you can not hold your self from fornicating then marry!But ALAS there is a commandment that clearly states:THOU SHALL NOT COMMIT ADULTERY!!!
So lets not pull out scripture to support our bias.
If we do that one we go Bible mortal combat,LOL
I dare say this: NOT EVERYONE IS SUPPOSED TO MARRY!!!!!
I don't think people know what marriage vows are o!!! people are really take GOD for granted!!!!
Let's analyze it:
FORSAKING ALL OTHERS
TO BE FAITHFUL LOYAL AND HONEST.
TO HAVE AND TO HOLD(meaning no more bikini babes no more 6 pack boys... no more random hookups!NO LIES!!!!You shall touch and sleep with only one person all your life. HMMM is okay lol)
IN SICKNESS AND IN HEALTH!! (no matter sick your spouse gets, even if worms are coming out of their body and they smell bad! you have to be there for them!!!!) FOR BETTER FOR WORSE( no matter how bad things get!even if una quarrel ans burn down the house! you stay!!)
FOR RICHER OR POORER!!!(hehehe i wont even touch this before some babes will say am swearing for them to marry a poor man...lol...but he does get you stay) and the one that freaks me out.....TILL DEATH DO US PART 9 meaning that the only thing that should separate is death.
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